8) “Do you like cuddles?”
You don’t always need to be directly sexual when you ask her questions online in order to get her excited. Sometimes, you can turn her on in other ways without even alluding to sex. In your first online message avoid anything too sexual.
One of the first times I really got chatting to a woman online, she asked me if I liked cuddling. I’d never been asked that before.
Women love to cuddle. It’s one of their favorite things ever. While dirty talk gets them excited, so does the equally sensual cuddle talk. It lets her know that you’re keen on her and that you want to get intimate and look after her. You want to be there for her and protect her, and this is a massive turn-on for women.
She’ll start picturing all kinds of things, like the two of you cuddling in front of the fire. You two cuddling in bed all day. Cuddling after a particularly hard day of work.